Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Discovering Community at the Boston Marathon

I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the community,
and as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can.
George Bernard Shaw

Yesterday, I participated in one of those quintessentially Boston events: the Boston Marathon. No, I most certainly did NOT run in the marathon. I was there to support a friend, Jim, from Texas. He ran while his fiance (Elizabeth, a dear friend for many years), my wife, and I did our best to support him. This included one "shout out" of support near Kenmore Square as he ran by (his fiance managed an early shout out in the Boston suburbs as well as the one in the city with us). Later he told us what a difference it made to have us encouraging him when he'd reached the point of just pushing through to the end.

Not running in the marathon (and I hereby proclaim that I have no intention of ever doing so!), gave me an opportunity to observe and participate in the entire experience. We walked along part of the route and saw an enormous number of people participating in some way or another. Some were there because they come every year. Some were there because it was a good excuse to start drinking early. Others were there because it was a state holiday in Massachusetts (Patriots Day). Some were there to see the Red Sox game (ANOTHER loss to the Rays! Ugh!).

Many were there to support a specific runner or group of runners. I saw all sorts of people in matching t-shirts, with signs, with "stuff" to give the runners in case they needed a boost. People stood along the route yearning to catch a glimpse of a friend or family member running toward them. When they saw that particular person, they began to yell out the person's name and a huge smile would appear on the face of a weary runner who was just gutting it out.

I've often thought of running as a solo athletic endeavor. In many ways it is, of course. Even when someone has another to run with, in the midst of a marathon each person is eventually on his or her own to make it to the finish.

But in so many ways, the Boston Marathon exemplifies the need we have for community even in something that is so highly individualized. After the race, Jim spoke of the noise from the crowds that kept up his energy, of the other runners along the way with whom he interacted, and of our support at a critical time in the race for him. Jim wasn't alone and didn't run alone. He ran with a community.

The non-runners are certainly feeling better today than the runners. We don't need to recover from yesterday. But each of us, in a different way, made the Boston Marathon experience possible.

I won't stretch the metaphor too much here. You know where I'm going with this, I'm sure. Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Jesus calls us to live faithfully for the long term, not the short term. Etc., etc.

Perhaps it is best to remember, as I was reminded yesterday, that we are in this together, that each of us has a part to play to make it to the end of the race. Life is meant to be lived interdependently, in community, with each of us sharing our gifts, talents, and skills for the good of the whole. It's only a question, really, of whether we are each willing to do our part so that the community can keep on running.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Alleluia! Christ is Risen!

Today is Monday in Easter Week, according to the church calendar. For many Christians it is a day to relax and take a breath after the intensity of the Holy Week journey. In many cases, today is a day to "get back to normal," to get back to school, work, and the normal routines of life after several days focused on Jesus' passion and resurrection.

I hope, however, that those of us who participated in Holy Week and Easter -- who truly experienced the depth of the Good Friday darkness and the brightness of the Easter light -- will return to "normal" a bit transformed, changed in a small way. Perhaps "normal" can be renewed, if we choose to carry Easter with us into our lives. Perhaps we can live more fully into the reality of the resurrection and what it means for us today.

That's enough reflection for today. The church office is closed and I'm enjoying a sabbath day. Time to rest (or perhaps I should be using the time to finish my taxes!!).

Alleluia! Christ is risen!
The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!

Friday, April 2, 2010

Thoughts on Good Friday

It is almost 2:15 PM on Good Friday, April 2, 2010. We are almost through the traditional three hours marked as the time Jesus was on the cross. I thought I'd share some reflections that I sent to parishioners yesterday. Good Friday is the critical day on our journey toward Easter. In our culture today it is often easy to move through Good Friday without reflection, to focus on Jesus' resurrection (the nice part of the story) and not on his suffering and death (the painful part of the story).

And yet, the day is called Good Friday, not Tragic Friday. The word "Good" in the title for the day comes from an older use of the word in English as an equivalent of "Holy." Good Friday, then, is Holy Friday. It is also, for all the focus on Jesus' death, a good day. It is good because it is the day that reminds us that Jesus died so that we might live, live free from the burden of our mistakes, weaknesses, and shortcomings (our sins, to use the traditional word) that become barriers to a full and loving relationship with God.

The day is good because the outstretched arms of Jesus on the cross are a divine embrace, an open gesture that reminds us that if we are lost, we can be found; if we are in darkness, we can find light; if we are in despair, we can find hope; if we are isolated and alone, we can find love.

The day is good because it reminds us that we are not alone in the pain and struggles that impact our lives. When we suffer, we remember that God through Jesus suffered for us and suffers with us.

The day is good because it reveals our human capacity to love one another in the midst of evil. While there are people in the passion story who mock, hurt, and kill Jesus, there are also those who stand with him and by him, who care for him as he suffers and in his death. Divine goodness made incarnate in Jesus and in us, we learn on Good Friday, overcomes evil.

The day is good because it is redeemed by Easter Day, the day of resurrection. We know that Friday is not the end of the story, that our sufferings and struggles in life are not the last word or the last action. God will bring good out of everything. No matter what, as Dame Julian of Norwich told us centuries ago, "all will be well, and all will be well, and all matter of things will be well."